Do You Practice Happy?
We hold the key to happiness. Each and everyone of us decides who is happy. Most important, we
determine our own happiness.
In a few weeks, my next book, Lead With Your Heart, arrives at the printers and soon thereafter hits the bookstores. I wrote the book to offer a new business model; one that begins and ends with people, not numbers. In short, my 35 years experience in business and a few additional decades experiencing life has left me with one over-riding principal: We spend too much time chasing numbers and not enough time creating great experiences for our customers, our clients, our employees, our family, our friends and ourselves.
Creating happiness is not about making people laugh, although it can be. It is about practicing a life philosophy based on a simple principal that has been around for thousands of years--love others as you want them to love you (sort of a New Testament version of an Old Testament saying). I use the "word" love instead of "treat" because "love" is the most powerful word in any language. So powerful in fact that no other word carries so much meaning in our lives. And because happiness must be practiced, it must be learned and shared to make it live, and because I believe that without happiness, without experiences that make us and everyone around us feel honored, respected, cared about and important, we cannot become whole. We cannot be at peace with ourselves and those around us. We cannot make a lasting difference that changes something or someone for the better.
In business when you Lead With Your Heart, loving others follows certain principals that look like this:
- Always put people first, and profits will follow.
- Always treat people with respect and dignity.
- Always tell the truth.
- Always offer a product or service that is second to none.
- Always create great people experiences around everything your business says and does.
- Always back up your products and services with a guaranty.
- Always create a business culture and climate that honors everyone and encourages freedom to be creative, innovative, kind and caring.
- Always see opportunities to get better and to be better.
- Always create business values that represent life rules for living in a community that if any one of them went away, your business would change for the worse.
- Always live those values.
- Always practice happiness.
To make these things alive, powerful, life altering and business changing, they must be practiced and authentic, not merely spoken or written or created to sell product. Every day our business must do everything it can to reach out to people and make their day better because our business exists. It doesn't matter whether or not we sell coffee, beads, luxury items, or widgets, the people who work with us, who live in our community, who buy from us or who we touch in any way must gain from our existence.
If we built our business around a people-first mode and at some point we went away, we would be missed. That would be a legacy we could be proud of.
P.S. Writing a post such as this is meant to be thought-provoking and inspirational. In such a short space, we cannot adequately define our terms our explain the reasoning behind principals. I hope you can read this in that frame of mind, and feel free to agree or argue with or about any of the points made. That is what being open to learning requires: A discussion of ideas is not a discussion if it exists only as a monologue.

always took all the days I had coming. Wanted to, no needed to get away. And I enjoyed my vacation, often traveling to an exotic island such as Oahu or Maui or flying off to Italy or France.
creating a piece of work that touches the audience. That is best done collaboratively, between consultant and client.
others. And what better way to reach another than to make their lives better or to help them have a great experience? How will you or your business do that between now and Monday? Will you...








Land, as reported in Starbucks Gossip on Feb. 23, 2007. In an e-mail he says, "we desperately need to look into the mirror and realize it's time to get back to the core and make the changes necessary to evoke the heritage, the tradition, and the passion that we all have for the true Starbucks experience." (See the entire e-mail below.)
